their pants（裤子）in class, get a bad report card or 11 a grade than it is to be confronted (面临)by a rival （竞争）baby brother or sister situations a parent might 12 to be most disturbing. For a child, a blow to self-esteem, the sense of being worthy, is a 13 thing to endure（忍受）.
Triggering（触发）this fear, among other things, is the experience of being lost in a 14 place, of seeing their parents fight, 15 when there is violence. Between two thirds and three quarters of the children surveyed have experienced the 16 of parental fighting, and it 17 them afraid that their mother and father are going to get divorced just the noise of the quarrel can be frightening.
"In listening to children, it is 18 not to be touched by their profound sense of vulnerability（脆弱），"says Yamamoto. "They are afraid of being left 19 , fearful of what lies ahead and uncertain of what they can do. They are fundamentally（基本地）dependent upon 20 in the face of upsetting and unpredictable events."
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