"Oh, did you think it was your shirt? " A small giggle escaped her  40  . "That's silly."
    " No, I knew it was Mommy's shirt." he said.
    A(n)  41   expression crossed my daughter's face. "Then why are you doing that?"
    Because your Mommy is a special person, and I like to   42   her." he answered.
    "Oh," she happily replied, and then skipped out of the room. "I'm going to help my brother."
    As our children's   43   teachers, we know that little eyes watch our every move.  They imitate not only our actions, but our 　44  . For example, we often hear our children   45   their brothers,  sisters or friends in a   46  we know they learned from   47  . But on the positive side, the propensity (倾向性) to   48   can serve us well when we try to model, and teach a   49   of kindness and cheerful servanthood.
    We all try to do nice things for our family. Think about the last time you cooked a meal or folded laundry.  50   did you feel about   51   your family in this way? Were you glad to do it   52   did you feel resentful that you were stuck with this mundane (平凡的) chore?   53   , none of us has a cheerful servant's heart every day.   54   if we want our children willingly to reach out to others and show kindness  and compassion, it is essential that they see us doing the   55  .